nothing on you.

why do people cheat?

in all honesty, i try my best not to judge people when i discover that they have. I mean, everyone makes mistakes. Everyone slips up every now and then. But im curious to know the WHY. what was the driving force that brought a person to make the decision to be unfaithful to their spouse they are currently with? it's mind boggling. I understand that when youre in a relationship you kind of drift into outer space and wonder hmmm what else is out there. BUT COME ON.

relationship = loyalty and trust. without both you have NOTHING.

someone please answer me this. because i am curious to know why people contemplate the "what else" when they already have, in theory, what they want??

gravity.

I live here on my knees as I try to make you see that you're everything I think I need here on the ground.
But you're neither friend nor foe though I can't seem to let you go.
The one thing that I still know is that you're keeping me down

blehh!!

PornStar.

Have a great time, pour yourself a shot girl
Chase it with a lime, now you feeling like a hot girl

this is what everyone needs to understand: once youve dealt with the drama.. YOU WILL LAUGH at the drama. im slowly starting to laugh again.. slowly. but. like classic maria, i will dwell on the drama until it consumes my life before i laugh about it. give me two more weeks, friends. im working on it.

my guy friends are the best. i had some bromance this week on two seperate occasions and not gonna lie.. it was needed. i consider this weekend as part of my ongoing field study of the male species. in order to really understand the man, one has to be one of the guys. i tuned out some of the conversation because tbh all the talk about basketball is boring.

enclosed.. my findings:

- guys have feelings. wait, WHAT?!?!? ya. apparently they do!
- guys have trouble putting into words their feelings but once they do, its actually pretty dope
- guys change the topic.. but not quickly enough. girls are far more ADD. hence why i check in and out of convo topics.
- guys dont wait for each other to speak.. they speak over each other! --- rude!!
- guys talk about sex. a lot. yes this is obvious and YES its gross. and kind of awesome.
- when talking about girls, guys are BRUTALLY honest. ladies, WATCH YOURSELF.
- not all guys are assholes. some of them actually do things with the best intentions.
- guys really think girls are crazy. like really.
- guys put their cellphones on the table - YES!!!!!!!!!!!
- guys need girls just as much as girls need guys. not just in relationships. but just to understand the other side.

emphasis on the FEELINGS. funny that. didnt know there were guys that actually feel bad when they screw over a girl. HMMMMMMMMM....

FYI: i am watching harry potter. midnight showing. WHOS DOWN!!!!!!!!!

for your listening pleasure..

famous girl.

"we judge ourselves by our intentions and others by their actions" #realtalk

if there is anything that my PR course has taught me thus far it is this: act first. comment later. talk is cheap.

apply this to RL. if we say we're going to do something we have to do it. but what if we dont? well congrats you have just lost credibility and are now viewed as useless to your publics.

RL scenario 1: your bf says hes going to take you out on a date tomorrow night. one week later still no date?! good job, bf! you have disappointed the woman. and we all know what happens when the lady is unhappy right? ya. you know whats up.

RL scenario 2: friend says they will plan something. its been months and they still havent seen each other. friend doubts friendship and now wonders why they even bother.

RL scenario 3: how many times have you said to an old friend, "we should hang out sometime!" and then not follow through? classic.

the way i see it #5903
people have good intentions. they dont mean to hurt others' feelings. we try our best to cater to the masses. but at the end of the day we have to remember that in order to stay credible we must:
1) never lie
2) state the facts properly
3) (if we are at fault) be empathetic

i challenge you, friends to work on your credibility. i will do the same. and who knows? maybe, just maybe.. we wont be so angry/frustrated/confused with each other as much =)

apologize.

a day in the life of nanay and lola...
C: im not a bitch, right?=
M: yes you are. but thats why i like you
#realtalk

lovelovelove.

apparently i have a cute walk. a customer commented on my walk. i didnt hear her.. but my DM did. i am now paranoid when walking ANYWHERE. i walk slow imo.

only at my work establishment...
D: are you offended when i call you cute?
M: id rather be called cute than a shark. im proud that im not a shark.
#realtalk

i only have time for people who are awesome. are you awesome? methinks not.

when i see this photo i think "attack!!!!"