"we judge ourselves by our intentions and others by their actions" #realtalk
if there is anything that my PR course has taught me thus far it is this: act first. comment later. talk is cheap.
apply this to RL. if we say we're going to do something we have to do it. but what if we dont? well congrats you have just lost credibility and are now viewed as useless to your publics.
RL scenario 1: your bf says hes going to take you out on a date tomorrow night. one week later still no date?! good job, bf! you have disappointed the woman. and we all know what happens when the lady is unhappy right? ya. you know whats up.
RL scenario 2: friend says they will plan something. its been months and they still havent seen each other. friend doubts friendship and now wonders why they even bother.
RL scenario 3: how many times have you said to an old friend, "we should hang out sometime!" and then not follow through? classic.
the way i see it #5903
people have good intentions. they dont mean to hurt others' feelings. we try our best to cater to the masses. but at the end of the day we have to remember that in order to stay credible we must:
1) never lie
2) state the facts properly
3) (if we are at fault) be empathetic
i challenge you, friends to work on your credibility. i will do the same. and who knows? maybe, just maybe.. we wont be so angry/frustrated/confused with each other as much =)
Sunday, November 7, 2010
Thursday, November 4, 2010
apologize.
a day in the life of nanay and lola...
C: im not a bitch, right?=
M: yes you are. but thats why i like you
#realtalk
lovelovelove.
apparently i have a cute walk. a customer commented on my walk. i didnt hear her.. but my DM did. i am now paranoid when walking ANYWHERE. i walk slow imo.
only at my work establishment...
D: are you offended when i call you cute?
M: id rather be called cute than a shark. im proud that im not a shark.
#realtalk
i only have time for people who are awesome. are you awesome? methinks not.
when i see this photo i think "attack!!!!"
C: im not a bitch, right?=
M: yes you are. but thats why i like you
#realtalk
lovelovelove.
apparently i have a cute walk. a customer commented on my walk. i didnt hear her.. but my DM did. i am now paranoid when walking ANYWHERE. i walk slow imo.
only at my work establishment...
D: are you offended when i call you cute?
M: id rather be called cute than a shark. im proud that im not a shark.
#realtalk
i only have time for people who are awesome. are you awesome? methinks not.
when i see this photo i think "attack!!!!"
superhuman.
i miss my friends. all of them.
i want my ear piercings to quit being such a batch of ugly and finally be cool.
it would be nice to have my tattoo before NYE.
team awesome is BACK IN ACTION...
M: so i cant party for the next few weekends. i have school.
J: wait. what? but D is leaving lamplighter.
M: oh no!
J: we need to get as much lamp as we can!!
M: youre right! ok lets party.
... sometimes, i really am that easy.
this has been an ongoing discussion with two different people. open up for debate: the act of giving: genuine? or are we expecting something in return?
but lets be real. for the next month... in THEORY.. i need to hermit it up. studz with budz? yes. it is a MUST of the MSNs.
korean body wave? methinks yes. my hair needs more BOUNCE
sometimes, i just want to punch people in the face. today was one of what i feel will be string of angry days.
starbucks is promoting xmas far too early. we JUST finished hween. give me 2wks. i still have candy that needs to be eaten!!
i need a reason to wear my kenya. SOMEONE GIVE ME A REASON TO WEAR MY KENYA, DAMNIT!!!!
case of the ex. oh geez. that was a deal breaker FOR SURE.
attn harry potter fans: i would like to invite someone.. anyone really.. to go to seattle for the HP exhibit. YES i am a geek and YES i am proud of it. hey, at least i didnt go to twicon?!! (although i was tempted...)
PostScript: THEY ARE BACK. and joseph gorden levitt is in town. clearly we all know what this means: hunting season, wheeeeeeeeeee =)=)=)
i want my ear piercings to quit being such a batch of ugly and finally be cool.
it would be nice to have my tattoo before NYE.
team awesome is BACK IN ACTION...
M: so i cant party for the next few weekends. i have school.
J: wait. what? but D is leaving lamplighter.
M: oh no!
J: we need to get as much lamp as we can!!
M: youre right! ok lets party.
... sometimes, i really am that easy.
this has been an ongoing discussion with two different people. open up for debate: the act of giving: genuine? or are we expecting something in return?
but lets be real. for the next month... in THEORY.. i need to hermit it up. studz with budz? yes. it is a MUST of the MSNs.
korean body wave? methinks yes. my hair needs more BOUNCE
sometimes, i just want to punch people in the face. today was one of what i feel will be string of angry days.
starbucks is promoting xmas far too early. we JUST finished hween. give me 2wks. i still have candy that needs to be eaten!!
i need a reason to wear my kenya. SOMEONE GIVE ME A REASON TO WEAR MY KENYA, DAMNIT!!!!
case of the ex. oh geez. that was a deal breaker FOR SURE.
attn harry potter fans: i would like to invite someone.. anyone really.. to go to seattle for the HP exhibit. YES i am a geek and YES i am proud of it. hey, at least i didnt go to twicon?!! (although i was tempted...)
PostScript: THEY ARE BACK. and joseph gorden levitt is in town. clearly we all know what this means: hunting season, wheeeeeeeeeee =)=)=)
Thursday, October 21, 2010
cry me a river.
sometimes imu...
ive purposely added more things to my plate to ensure that i dont have a quiet moment by myself to THINK. and it worked for a little bit. except today. i dont know why today was different but it was. for the first time in maybe two weeks i didnt want to punch myself for letting you get under my skin. for the first time in two weeks i was sad that we arent friends.
... just sayin. nbd or anything.
ive purposely added more things to my plate to ensure that i dont have a quiet moment by myself to THINK. and it worked for a little bit. except today. i dont know why today was different but it was. for the first time in maybe two weeks i didnt want to punch myself for letting you get under my skin. for the first time in two weeks i was sad that we arent friends.
... just sayin. nbd or anything.
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
The Roof.

ser·en·dip·i·ty
– noun
1. an aptitude for making desirable discoveries by accident.
2. good fortune
— n
the faculty of making fortunate discoveries by accident
serendipity
1754 (but rare before 20c.), coined by Horace Walpole (1717-92) in a letter to Mann (dated Jan. 28); he said he formed it from the Persian fairy tale "The Three Princes of Serendip," whose heroes "were always making discoveries, by accidents and sagacity, of things they were not in quest of." The name is from Serendip, an old name for Ceylon (modern Sri Lanka), from Arabic Sarandib, from Skt. Simhaladvipa "Dwelling-Place-of-Lions Island." Serendipitous formed c.1950.
... soon to be INKED. whatupppp!!!!
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